About Me

About Emily Tilsworth

I have supported individuals, couples, and families through difficult times for more than 25 years. While I have worked in a variety of non-profit and community-based settings, I launched Resilient Cactus Psychotherapy in 2021 and quickly discovered a passion for private practice.

My interest in understanding human behaviour and my belief that people can grow and change under the right circumstances initially led me to support justice-involved youth and their families. Understanding that people are often doing the best they can with the knowledge, resources, and experiences available to them helped me develop a compassionate, non-judgmental approach. At the same time, I recognize that meaningful change requires honesty, accountability, and self-reflection. This has taught me how to ask thoughtful questions, gently challenge unhelpful patterns, and help clients gain new perspectives that support lasting change.

Over the years, I have expanded my knowledge and integrated a variety of evidence-based approaches to help clients get to the heart of what is keeping them stuck. Whether those challenges stem from past experiences, relationship patterns, life transitions, or nervous system responses, my goal is to help clients make sense of their experiences and move forward in a way that feels meaningful and fulfilling.

I have also navigated my own lived experiences of love, parenting, employment, loss, and life's inevitable ups and downs. While my clients' stories are unique, these experiences remind me that being human is often messy, complicated, and imperfect—and that growth is possible for all of us.

More About Me:

• Psychotherapist/Registered Social Worker (OCSWSSW)

• Master of Arts Degree in Counselling Psychology

• Certified in First Responder Psychology

• Certified Trauma Practitioner

• Certified Self-Injury Counsellor

•Trained in several therapeutic modalities

See “My Approach” and "Understanding Clinical Orientations" sections for more information.

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Why "Resilient Cactus?"

I chose the name Resilient Cactus because I believe resilience is about more than simply getting through difficult things.

A cactus can survive in challenging conditions. It adapts to its environment, protects what is vulnerable, stores what it needs to sustain itself, and continues to grow—even when the conditions aren't ideal.

People are much the same.

The ways we think, feel, behave, and relate to others often make sense when we understand what we have experienced and what we have needed to do to navigate our environment. Sometimes the very strategies that once helped us cope can become less helpful when our circumstances change.

Therapy isn't about getting rid of those parts of ourselves or learning to simply “be stronger.” It's about developing a deeper understanding of ourselves, recognizing the patterns that no longer serve us, and building new ways of responding that support the life and relationships we want.

Resilience doesn't mean that we weren't affected by what happened to us. It means we can adapt, grow, and continue moving forward with greater understanding and choice.

That is the heart of Resilient Cactus: creating a space where you can better understand why you are the way you are, develop the tools and awareness to navigate what life brings, and grow in a way that feels authentic to you.

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